In His Own Words
About him
Here's my situation. It's been 16 months since my partner's death following a protracted illness. (We met in 1980) I'm still working and I have two pugs. I'm solvent, used to live between Richmond and Minchinhampton, in the Cotswolds. Now I am settled in Tetbury, Glos. Often in The Highlands too. I'm a warm caring person, with an irreverent sense of humour, not set in my ways at all, and open to possibilities with another man. Living far from the madding crowd, I may seem too distant but that is only geographical and distance can sometimes be beneficial as we hopefully get to know each other over time. I could resume town and country life, in spite of the M4! I can work from anywhere and I am open to possibly relocating in time. I love to cook, love the countryside, my garden, old movies, and having someone to care for. I used to travel but no longer have anyone to share this with, so currently I'm a bit of a homebody. Without sounding pretentious, I hope, I am reasonably cultured and well educated and love the English language - speak reasonable French too.
I don't need rescuing by the way, more liberating.
Ideal Match below...
About his ideal match
As many as possible of the following traits
Someone who cares
Hopeful
Sincere
Charismatic
Charming
Considerate
Articulate (love a talker)
Polite
Serious
Fun-loving, silly (when not being serious)
Smart
Highly intuitive
Kind
Easy to talk to
Throw in sexy too!
I'm not expecting all of the above, the first in the list is non-negotiable, but tick just a few other boxes too - perfection is very much overrated 🙂
Looks - not so much! More a meeting of minds would suit, I'm certainly not"all that" myself, though I try.
I find understatement and inner strength most attractive.
What His Friends Say
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Cirencester (Tetbury), Gloucestershire, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
67 | |
Star sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
5' 11" (180cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
University | |
Occupation: |
Health / Social Care | |
Income: |
Enough | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Agnostic |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Belgium; Denmark; France; Ireland; Isle of Man; Netherlands; Norway; United Kingdom | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
40 - 80 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 6" (167cm) - 6' 7" (201cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Large; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Decidedly important | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan; Kosher | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Secondary; Further education; University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Food / Catering; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Public sector; Media; Retail; Health / Social Care | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
English; Danish; Dutch; French; Hebrew; Italian; Norwegian | ||
Other languages: |
English; Dutch; French | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Melancholy; Optimistic; Sensible; Shy; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear contacts |
Facial hair: |
None |
Body hair: |
Average |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Instrumental; Jazz; R&B / Soul; Rock; World |
Reading: |
I read newspapers regularly; I read books occasionally |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; Fiction; Non-fiction; Romance |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; Music Channels; News; Sci-Fi; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Acting; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Internet; Painting; Politics; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Walking |
Cooking: |
I really enjoy cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Italian; Pub Grub |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Flirting; Intelligence; Sarcasm |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream home: |
In the country |
Retirement plans: |
Living in the country |
Feelings about using Cool FM Dating: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Very |