In His Own Words
About him
I’m a Paddington personality type - I see the good in people, love finding joy in the everyday, and yes, I genuinely love marmalade.
By day, I lead marketing for a well-known Leeds theatre venue (an absolute dream job!). When I’m not immersed in theatre or at the cinema, you’ll find me writing, out in a field metal detecting, or squeezing in a couple of workouts a week. Huge Disney fan, too.
Between work and editing two weekly e-newsletters, I like keeping active, but I always make quality time for the right person. Not overcomplicating my dating goals, I'm just looking for someone kind to enjoy good company, laughs, and great conversations with.
Maybe that's you?
About his ideal match
I'm looking for someone who has some shared interests and sees kindness as a strength, who is interested in seeing where things go and hopefully develop.
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Leeds, Yorkshire - West, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
57 | |
Star sign: |
Taurus | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
A few extra pounds | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair colour: |
Ask me later | |
Eye colour: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Ask me later | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Atheist |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district LS28 (Pudsey) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
50 - 65 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 6' 2" (189cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Any | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Any | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Sense of humour: |
Light-hearted |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Funny; Generous; Happy; Intelligent; Loving; Optimistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Friendliness; Humour; Kindness |
Fashion sense: |
Alternative (I'm stylish in my own special way) |
Favourite colour: |
Other |
Hair style: |
It's a distant memory |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body art: |
A tattoo or two |
Date activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Pop / Top 40; Rap / Hip Hop |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read magazines regularly |
Books: |
Horror; Sci-Fi; Science / Technology |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels; News; Sci-Fi |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Cult Classics; Documentary; Drama; Horror; Independent; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Internet; Reading; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the couch |
Sports: |
Football (Soccer) |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Fast food; Fine Dining; Italian; Japanese; Seafood; Sushi; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Chilled |
Time at work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Reptile(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Sarcasm |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
Other |
Politics: |
Green |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using Cool FM Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Very |






